“There’s no limit to how complicated things can get on account of one thing always heading to another.” – – E. B. White from Charlotte’s Web
“One must be leery of words because they turn into cages. – Viola Spolin
The past that many of US choose to hang on to stands in Our way. Many of Us needlessly spend much of Our lives fighting a poor self-image. Each moment is a new opportunity to let go of all that has trapped me in MY past. I am free.
Pain is inevitable in life. As we grow and recover, we see how much of our suffering is directly related to Our stubbornness and illusion of control. Contrary to belief suffering is not Noble, it is often plain stupid. My pain teaches me about life.
“Ask…. Seek….. Knock… it will be given to you…. You will find… the door will be opened to you.” Matthew 7:7
“It’s our illusions that hang us up.” – – Anne Wilson Schaef Our addictions lead us into a life of illusion. They feed our illusion of control, our illusion of perfectionism, and our honesty. Our addictive behavior allows us to deny reality and justify not living OUR life. One of the significant qualities of beingContinue reading “Illusions”
Expectations are like girdles. We probably should have discarded them years ago.
When, in my controlling behavior, I do unto others as I do unto myself, we all lose.
It’s up to US what we do with Our lives. Everyone has feelings and memories we must work thru. None of Us had perfect families, honestly dysfunctional families are the norm. When we get stuck in our blame, anger, hurt, and Denial we are the ones to suffer. It is up to each one ofContinue reading “My Garden”
All addictions are built on illusions. The illusion of control the illusion of perfectionism, the illusion of objectivity. Dishonesty and denial are the building blocks of addiction. When we participate in any of these illusions, we are deceiving ourselves, we lose ourselves. Denial runs rampant at every level of our society, and there is notContinue reading “Illusions”
…. It’s always PROGRESS over PERFECTION 💯🙏💯
Resentment attracts more resentment; denial keeps you stuck in the same place. But gratitude gets you out of the loop of lowness, opens you to new possibilities, and sets you free.